Do You Want To Be Right or Be Happy?

 Okay Ladies, I have a tough question for you today and you can only pick one answer. It’s not going to be an easy decision for you to make because you just like me are going to want both. Unfortunately it doesn’t always work out like that, I won’t say you can never have both but for the most part your going to have to make the tough decision.

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RIGHT OR HAPPY? 

So here it is friends, do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy? I know, your a woman and you want to be right and happy but what if I told you that in order to be happy you have to stop trying to prove you’re right all the time.

If you’re a regular on my site you would know that men have these things called egos. Well that ego of his can make or break the emotional and intimate connection you have with your man. Trying to prove to your man that you are always right is going to drive a wedge in between you.

BUT I AM RIGHT!

I know, your thinking to yourself you have every right to argue that you’re right because you are. Been there girlfriend, I know exactly how you feel. The only problem is, if your right than he has to be wrong. The old me would have gave you a big old high five for proving your man was wrong. The me today, not so much.

I’d rather be happy than right, or I should say I’d rather be happy than prove that I’m right. That is the difference ladies, you can still KNOW what your right but you don’t have to fight to prove it.

RESPECT

Trying to prove to your man or everyone else that you’re right looks a little like disrespect. This is what is really the relationship killer. Remember that ego we keep talking about, well when you disrespect your man your killing that ego. You might as well just stick a dagger right in his heart.

You may be asking yourself what respect looks like to a man so let me help you out just a little bit. Respect for a man means you don’t correct him or tell him that he’s doing it the wrong way even if he is. Respect means that even if he refuses to stop and ask for directions you don’t reprimand him like child. Doesn’t matter if you end up half away across the state, you say nothing. Instead enjoy your quality time in the car together, your adventure might end up giving you a funny story to share.

Respect also looks a lot like accepting your man as he is without trying to change things. Think about it, you chose him for a reason, why would you want to change him? Show respect to your man for who he is.

Knowing that you respect him will stroke his ego, and make him feel that it is safe for him to share more of himself with you. This not only gives you a closer look into your man it also will open the doors to a more intimate relationship and who isn’t longing for a little of that.

WELL?

So ladies now that you know that just by making this one (hard as hell for some) change you could see a dramatic change in your relationship I’m going to ask you the question again. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? The choice is yours, I can only share what I know from my personal experiences. Be on the lookout for my personal story coming out soon.

Always keepin’ it short and sweet and until next time friends, Live your happy life 🙂

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