Life can feel like a whirlwind sometimes—busy schedules, endless to-do lists, and constant worries. If you’re like many women I talk to, you may feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and disconnected from the calm and peace you once had or dream of having. If you’ve recently gone through a difficult time—whether it’s a betrayal, a breakup, or…
Hey friend, Let’s talk about one of the heaviest parts of healing after betrayal: trust. Everyone says, “You just need to rebuild trust.” But no one really tells you how. No one talks about the awkward moments, the emotional whiplash, the times you feel crazy for checking his phone or asking one too many questions. They don’t talk about…
Hey friend, This one’s a hard question, isn’t it? Can you really love him again… after everything? When you’ve been betrayed — emotionally, physically, spiritually — it can feel like love was ripped out by the roots. You may still be living in the same house, maybe even sleeping in the same bed, but your…
Hey there, beautiful friend. If you’ve found yourself here, I just want to start by saying: I see you. I know what it feels like when your world suddenly tilts sideways. When the person you thought would always have your back feels like a stranger. When your heart is aching, your trust is shattered, and…
WHY DO MEN CHEAT? I’ve been there, sitting where you are right now. Desperate to find answers, trying to figure out how to fix this or why it happened to begin with. Trying to decide on what the next step should be. Do I fight for my husband or just let him go? Your probably…
It’s been a year since I came back to this website, it was about then that I took it down. Ya know, I started this site in 2019 as my outlet for some bad stuff that I was going through, the stuff that I just couldn’t get past. The cheating, the lies, the heartbreak. The…
 Okay Ladies, I have a tough question for you today and you can only pick one answer. It’s not going to be an easy decision for you to make because you just like me are going to want both. Unfortunately it doesn’t always work out like that, I won’t say you can never have both…
How are you and your marriage doing during the 2020 Quarantine? I like so many countless others have been put on “pause” as they are calling it here in NY. Schools are closed, all non-essentials are working from home or aren’t working at all. This is putting additional unneeded stress on already stressful marriages from…
With Valentine’s Day just passed, I thought that maybe we should take a look at this topic. We’ve all heard the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” but is it true? Will a person that cheated on their other half do it again? This has been weighing on my mind recently. I know what…
I’ve been married for about 25 years now, and I’ve been with the same man since I was 17 years old. That is a really longtime, some might even say a lifetime. What does a 17 year old girl really know about relationships or even guys in general. At 17 all most girls care about…
